Friends
Families
Relationships
Stress
School
Appearance
Hobbies
Work
Many things contribute to how we feel such as confidence. The only way to know if you're happy is that you don't experience insecurity. List down anything that makes you feel free and happy. Once you've got that, you can track down the negativity in your lifestyle.
For each point you've taken, think about anything that's disrupting them. I know it's horrible just thinking about, but no worries. For each interruption, it's good to make a change. Let say that your current relationship is corrupting who you are. That my friend must be avoided at all cost. Find a solution is worth it like talking to your partner about how you guys treat each other or cutting all ties with him. There's many solutions to all the problems you're experiencing. All it takes are perseverance and commitments.
Sometimes, you may feel like not wanting to change the current lifestyle that's already killing you. They can be second-thoughts like,
"He's important in my life."
"I want to keep it till the end."
"I don't want to change at all."
"I'm not used to making a change."
"I need this person to help me though."
etc...
But think about it guys. Would you want to keep living a life that's suffocating you? Even that little change probably wouldn't kill you so much. Even so, it should be relieving to be done with the negativity that's lowering your happiness.
Life's too short to keep living in the negativity. Happiness is the key to better opportunities. Nobody wants to die with regrets and sins. We should all spread the joy and give more than to receive.
*So sorry I haven't posted for a long time. I was quite sick these few weeks and been so busy with school and extracurricular activities. But I do try to manage my time in making these posts for you guys. Anyways, thank you again for understanding!*
*So sorry I haven't posted for a long time. I was quite sick these few weeks and been so busy with school and extracurricular activities. But I do try to manage my time in making these posts for you guys. Anyways, thank you again for understanding!*
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Hi dear Linnie, I believe absolutely in changes and your post is so wise and true!
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Very true. I was with someone who brought a lot of negativity and it feels so good to love myself now and be more positive. Positive thinking can truly change your life. I agree 100% with your post. Great post hun. Xx
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