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Aug 1, 2015

Do you feel happy pleasing or fulfilling Someones expectations?

Having a kind heart means that you'll give more love than to receive it. To be honest, I was that kind of girl and in return, the outcome can be unexpected. I remember my sister would be telling me that I was retarded for being a people pleaser when really it makes me happy, but to her it wasn't. But there's actually two tricks that play when pleasing someone. 

The first one is you being a generous person. It's simple because you're the one who gives out appreciation. What that means is when you see someone in need, you'll be the first person to treat them with lots of love. It's not a bad thing, but be careful who they are. They can use your kindness to treat it as "free money". Some signs to consider when finding the ones who treat you this way: 

Money beggars 
Someone damages your property
Rude commenters 
Deceiving scammers 
Those that don't owe you back 

Be smart when choosing the people to give kindness. I know I've been there and I don't want you guys to experience what I had to go through. Plus, be sure it makes you happy. 

The second trick is when that person expected you to do a well-done job. I'm sure everyone has been through this kind and for me, it's the most I've ever gotten. Say for example, the boss wants you to repeat the same process with your next project because each one you've done was fantastic. But as it was completed, your boss was not too happy about it and expected more out of you. It's the worst feeling to my opinion. But why should our significant others be expecting a perfect job from us? Some people include:
Friends 
Families 
Colleagues 
Boss 
Boyfriend/Girlfriend 

I've talk with other people who had this experience and all have said that it makes them feel less than what they are. I believe this too because when someone comments about my work of trash, I feel less confident and pushes me to keep repeating that mistake. Really, I think that a perfect you doesn't exist because no mistakes wouldn't reflect how you conquer your future. We have so many flaws in our hands, but it doesn't mean we can't become better from this. Fulfilling their expectations makes them happy, but does it for you? So, do try your best and forget the rest because nobody understands you better than yourself. 

Thank you guys for taking your time reading this post. If you can relate to any of this, do comment below because sharing is caring. :D

See ya next time! Ciao ^__^
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11 comments:

  1. Honestly I try really to please people as much as possible but I experienced it doesn't work always. Especially if I please one person but this has the follow-up that another person is not pleased about I pleased the first person ... Nevertheless I think everybody should have the intention to please the environment - but without forgetting the own person :)
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  2. This is such a helpful post! I always try really hard to please people, thank you for these tips ♥
    Amy xx

    Little Moon Dragon

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  3. Beautiful post! I am sure that in the future it will be helpful!

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  4. Amazing post, can't wait to read the next one!!
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  5. "Nobody understands you better than yourself" amen sister! Wise words!. I believe in kindness but not being naïve and I believe in having people push and motivate you you but not if it's degrading or in an unsupportive matter, most of all I truly believe that we should live up to our own expectations. Very true post! Keeping it real girl!

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  6. i love your blog! Very inspiring! Hope we can follow each other :(
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  7. Wonderful post, Thx for sharing with us.
    xox
    Lenya
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  8. Awesome, thoughtful post! It's impossible to please everyone! D:
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