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Aug 15, 2015

Don't overthink in life

Among the things we do or say aren't compared to what we think about. Everyday we constantly worry about some things that probably didn't matter. We often believe different outcomes that can ruin our life, but it's not as terrible as you think. 

Don't you ever come across words like "What if?" or "Should I?" Mainly in situations like careers, relationships, school, even life or death situations. Giving second guesses causes us to predict the worst case of scenario. But you know our head just messes up our emotions and we start to feel more anxious than usual. Stressing over little things won't make a big difference to your life because eventually they'll just be kept in the past. Instead of thinking beyond the future or going back into the past, live in the moment. You might be thinking, 

"Should I be with him?"
"What if I don't get this job?"
"Will we get marry?"
"Am I good enough?"
"Is this the right decision?"
"Should I go back to school?"
"How will the people react?"
"What if I didn't get accepted?"
"What if he doesn't like me?" 
"Should I let go of this chance?" 

And the list just goes on. But who cares about any of this. There's more important situations to be worrying about. Just go with flow because we're just one person with one brain so do as your heart is content. 

Now I'm not just saying that you shouldn't think about these matters, but you shouldn't "overthink" too much or else it'll affect you more. We don't have enough time to live in this world. We're born here to die, so use that precious time to go after what you want. Overthinking about everything you're stressing about is holding you back from all the other things you could be doing right now. And there's no need to look back into your past because there's no time for that either. How can you feel happy or be true to yourself if you don't move forward? If you're unable to get what you want then change it. You have the ability to make a choice because it's all up to you and your heart not your mind itself. 


Thank you guys for taking the time to read this post. I was kinda inspired to discuss this topic. If there's any life lessons you want me to discuss them do tell me in the comments. Because sharing is caring!

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10 comments:

  1. This is such a lovely post! I overthink way to much, I'm constantly stressing out about the little things ♥
    Amy xx

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  2. I really needed this, thank you Linnie ;o; I overthink everything man..

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  3. I know what you mean! Fortunately the older I get the less I'm doing worrying :)
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
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  4. agreed with the post :3

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  6. Fantastic post! It's really to easy to start overthinking things

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  7. Thank you so much Linnie for this post, I really needed it! I've been struggling on the job side things for a while and the worries of what next? how? and will I make it? have been really getting me down. This post is so true sometimes you just have to shhh your brain and let it be. Seriously thank you for this! <3

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  9. Thanks! I worry about so many little things and really needed to read this. x

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  10. Agreed! such a cute post! ^^
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