Letting go of connections

It's a real pain in the ass when your special someone leaves you behind. For whatever reason, we all know that we should move on. I've learn that the hard way, but in reality I'm able to become stronger from letting go. 

At some point of your life, you find this person who makes you feel good on the inside. You want to cherish that person and stay with them forever. But sometimes they can't always be with you either from death, separation, disagreements, and so on. We cry tremendously and start having negative thoughts about why are they gone. To be honest it's a fine case that we can learn as a lesson. 

Tell yourself why the two of you guys have left. It may be painful to know what was the problem, but we can understand our happiness at a greater extent. Learn that cutting all connections with them was a better option because you'll have better moments with others you'll meet in the future. And as you move forward, remember what was it that broke the relationship and apply it next time. Mistakes are meant to be life lessons. 

I remember I was tied down by my friend who I cherish my life with. We were like besties until it went downhill when her personality changed and she ditch me for new friends. I was devastated that I felt so lonely and didn't have anyone. Eventually, I wiped my tears and begin to make relationships with other people who made me laugh. Then, I realize how being tied down by someone who didn't give me complete happiness wouldn't make me happier than now. After realizing this, I felt so free from holding onto someone for so long. I started getting better and able to grasp my smile back. 

Everyone is totally different. I'm not sure what's their situation, but if we could relate then I would say that it's okay to let go of your relationship. As time moves forward, we'll experience better moments with many more people. I know it hurts enough that you want to kill yourself, but don't worry it's only the beginning. Be glad we're humans that we can experience all these emotions. Without it, I wouldn't even talk about this topic with you guys. Stay strong beautiful!

XOXO

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Liebster Awards

Hey guys, I was so lucky enough to be nominated by the oh-so sweet Michelle from Princess.From.Jupiter. Check her out, she so inspiring with her blog posts. Furthermore, let's begin this tag! 

I took some research on the Liebster Awards since I believed that this must be an official tag. To my surprise, this is a great way for bloggers to be recognized and discover new ones. Plus, this can be a nice gesture to boost your popularity for any promotions. "Liebster" in German means kindness, dearest, sweetheart, nice, lovely, valued, etc. 

Rules:

The Nominee must answer 11 questions that their nominators have chosen. At the same time, they must give 11 facts about themselves. Once completed, the nominee then choose 11 bloggers and giving them 11 questions they must answer. Basically like a chain letter. 

My eleven Q&A: 

1) How did you get to start blogging? 

Personally, I was inspired by youtubers and other bloggers because they had a voice to reach out to people. This gave me the idea to inspire people and create my own circle of friends who only knew about the posts I make since they're pretty personal. So I decided to give it a try and it was a wonderful feeling because people comment positive things that they learn from my posts. I have to thank my bullies for pushing me to become an inspirational figure for all young girls to feel good about themselves since I've learn the hard way of growing up in misery. 

2) If you could live in a book, TV show, or movie - which would it be? 

I would love to be in Paper Towns! I saw this movie in the summer recently and I was so shocked by the extraordinary mysteries that Q went through. I want to experience something like this, so Paper Town has to be something I would love to be in. 

3) What was the best compliment you've ever received? 

This is a hard one because there's too many, but I guess I'll just combine it into a single compliment. It was mainly when people had told me that,  "I was very positive." Every Time I hear someone say this to me, I have more self confidence and a boost of perseverance to inspire and help people. 

4) What cheers you up? 

Watching videos, reading manga, and playing with my sis cat. Three things to cure myself from moody days. 

5) Who is your hero? 

My hero or I should say role-model, would be Modern Gypsy. I love her sense of fashion and she expresses herself with a variety of color and a touch of streetwear. 

6) What are you afraid of? 

Definitely, vaccination or any needles that deal with medical. I'm dead scare of them and still have ever since I was a young girl. I wish I could let go of this fear, but it's too strong to let go. 

7) What is you favorite thing to spend money on?

Clothes! I always need new outfits every single day. I try my best to save up my money, but whenever I see a nice piece, I must buy it. The struggle is so real! 

8) Is the glass half full or half empty? 

I literally took 20 min thinking about this and I thought it was a trick question. But I would say half empty because you could never be satisfied with a half empty glass. 

9) What you prefer to be smart or happy and why?

I would prefer happiness or intelligence because you can be the smartest person in the world, but still feel empty. Happiness is the cure from depression. Plus, you have to learn to be happy. Learning is the key to success so don't think you know it unless you actually learn it. 

10) What has been your best moment so far? 

Geez I guess the best moment I've had was when my middle school friends and I went to the fair and enjoy our reunion after we started high school. I wish I could go back and relive the last moment we had together. 

11) Why are you so amazing? :3

Aww thank you! And I can't consider myself THAT amazing. But I guess being able to connect with people emotionally has been my favorite points. Doing something you love makes you feel amazing so do that. 

Eleven facts about me:

1) I'm a very seclusive introvert.

2) I'm a huge fan of manga and anime that I try to act like I'm in one.

3) I'm so in love with cats especially my sis cat. 

4) I've been 4'11 since I was 12 yrs old.

5) I love the color pink and black.

6) I know how to hand sew.

7) I would like to learn how to dance and play the piano.

8) My favorite disney princess would be Aurora. 

9) I really hate coconut or anything with coconut.

10) I love supernatural things.

11) I'm a creative person than a logical one.

My eleven nominees: 

Every Cactus Has a Flower 
http://everycactushasitsflower.blogspot.com/

Julia
http://simplyjuliia.blogspot.com/

GorisHelena
http://gorishelena.blogspot.com/

Chezzyrose
http://chezzyrose.blogspot.com/

Lauren
http://laurlauu.blogspot.com/

Mish L
http://mishsdiary.blogspot.com/

Molly Mac
http://mollymac13.blogspot.com/

Hilary Nirvana
http://www.theclosetelf.com/

Gabriela
http://simply-gabriela.blogspot.com/

Wildvagabonds
http://wildvagabondss.blogspot.com/

Sylvia
http://shewillbee.blogspot.com/

Eleven Questions you must answer: 

1) What was your favorite childhood toy? 

2) Where in the world would you like to travel?

3) What would your inspirational motto say? 

4) How would you define the word, "Beauty?"

5) If you could have one food to eat for the rest of your life, what would it be? 

6) What is your 3 favorite holidays? 

7) Do you prefer giving love or receiving love? And why?

8) How much wood would a woodchuck chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood? 

9) What super powers would you want? 

10) When is your bday? 

11) Where do you find your inspiration? 

That's it! Thank you for reading and a big shoutout to Michelle for nominating me. Even if you weren't a nominee, you can always take part of this. Sharing is caring! Take care! 

XOXO

See ya next time! Ciao ^__^ 

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Something old, something new

I was tagged by the sweet Ditsy sprinkles. Do check her out because she's the one who created this tag. Enough chatting, let's get started shall we!

What you must do: 

-Thank the person that tagged you

-List 5 blogs you've followed for a long time

-List 5 blogs you've recently discovered

-Tag all of your readers to join in

Long-time favorites: 

Nana's Notebook: 

Nicole (AKA Nana) is super nice and has amazing adventures with her family at Bangkok with delicious cuisine that you can't take your eyes off seriously. Right now, she's busy with recent events at Bangkok so please share your heartfelt regards. PRAY FOR BANGKOK!!

Wonderful World of Wengie: 

She's the one who got me hooked up into Korean beauty and makeup. Her tutorials are amazing and you could never go wrong with her YouTube channel also. From beauty secrets to hauls, this girl has all your needs. 

Princess.from.Jupiter:

I followed her a long time now and I love how her blog layout looks and the feeling of chic. Reading her post has brought me more inspiration and kindness. 

Romantiquley: 

Her blog is so incredible. The first time I saw it, I was in love with the feel of Vintage/French look. She makes her post enjoyable as it looks simple, but unique in its own away.

Ditsy Sprinkles:

First off, I have to thank her for this tag. I guaranteed she gives out great reviews about some products that are oh-so sweet. You could never go wrong with girly items she finds that make you wanna purchase. 

Recently discovered favorites: 

Rose Blossom:

I love her so freaking much!! Whenever you need inspiration, she's the answer to all your problems. You'll see amazing photos that really make you think about life again, but nonetheless her words of encouragement is what makes you feel like yourself. 

Dressed with Soul: 

The heroine of the blog has the nicest outfits. Not only outfits, but she shares her stories and it's very enjoyable. Having an adventure with her family and friends, it'll make you wanna go out and have fun. 

!♔.MishCheungX~

Her blog is all about beauty and Korean culture. You can find great details about kpop and hauls. A beautiful girl who has great knowledge of Korean pop culture with a nice sense of style. 

Little Moon Dragon:

Now, I find her blog amusing because she's suggest great blog posts. I find it amusing to read as well and end up finding new blogs everyday. And, her daily activities are so fun. 

Miharu Julie:

This blog has all the best kawaii stuff you can find. She's so amazing when she cosplays and love all her reviews like circle lens, makeup, snacks, and more. If you're into anime or kpop, she's the best place to be at. 

These are my favorite blogs I've been through lately. Ever since blogging, I didn't think anyone would be able to look at my blog seriously, but I've changed my view and so I appreciate all of you guys. 

P.S. If you're reading this post, then I highly encourage you to join in on the tag. Remember to give credit to Ditsy Sprinkles. 

XOXO 

See ya next time! Ciao ^__^ 

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Be a friend to your enemy

We all have foes along our path and that's basically the nature of humans. There's no telling who will be your enemy unless they put you down in a shameful way. But in truth, you don't need to take in their poison because they can actually be encouragement. 

So, lots of us will find someone that bully you. It could be family, friends, coworkers, or strangers. And you may find it hard to understand why they're doing this. There are many reasons for someone to bully and it can make us feel less confident. I know that everyone tries to walk away or cause an abruption. But avoiding their foes or causing a scene isn't always necessary. A third option that people can try is to learn from their enemies. 

Okay, you're probably thinking, "What is there to learn from someone who doesn't respect me?" 

And yes that can be true for the most part. But whenever the person shoots you with a bunch of criticism or hateful comments then this is a good chance to turn it into encouragement. With encouragement, you can learn a lot from becoming a better person to working hard to prove they're wrong. Let's say someone believes you're not a good dancer. Instead of taking in their poison and keeping it, you can turn it as a friendly note to work extra hard to be a talented dancer. I've learn that this is called constructive criticism meaning that giving rude comments in a way it becomes inspiration. Believe it or not, throwing harsh comments about someone won't matter to that person because they can use it as improvement and it wouldn't matter to the bully since they're insecure. 

Running away or back stabbing your enemies wouldn't lift your confidence. Use their voice as inspiration because this will improve your skills, happiness, and confidence. Thank your enemies and appreciate the words of encouragement they give you. 

See ya next time! Ciao ^__^

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